For those approaching labour and delivery for the first time (or maybe even for those who have been through it before), it can feel like it will be an experience out of your control. And while that is true to some extent – length, intensity, and the pattern of progress is different for everyone, there is so much you can do to impact what your experience looks like.
We’ve talked about how movement and positioning can play a role (here), and how the right childbirth education class can dramatically change outcomes (here), but something as simple as your mindset, your attitude going into labour and delivery, can play a large role as well.
But before we can get into that, why are we talking about this? Why does it matter that you can impact the pain you experience during childbirth if you have already decided you definitely want an epidural?
There are a few reasons:
- Labours are long! It is almost guaranteed you will labour without an epidural, as recommendations state hospital admission should be delayed until 4 cm + dilation is reached1
- People who manage pain with various techniques (massage, movement, water) before receiving an epidural report more satisfaction with their labours2
- While epidurals are very effective in managing pain, they are not associated with more positive labour experiences3,4